Preschool Lesson Guidelines3-5 years old – Getting Ready for Life

Lesson Guidelines for 3-5 Years Old

Personal, Social and Emotional Development

What Is It?

  • A child's growing capacity to develop close personal relationships with others, especially parents and caretakers.
  • Healthy expression and management of feelings and emotions.
  • Exploration and discovery of new environments.

What Children Should Learn During This Year

  • Self-confidence and self-awareness.
  • Managing feelings and behavior.
  • Creating relationships.
  • Developing a positive attitude towards learning.

Lessons and Activities

The child's Personal, Social and Emotional development relies on influential adults such as parents, relatives and/or caretakers to model appropriate behaviors and to provide positive feedback. Below is a list of development activities you can implement to help a child's progress.

  • Devotion
    An exercise to encourage character growth and development of positive values, attitudes, and perspectives such as caring, sharing, kindness, and honesty. An excellent example of this is reading children's stories with a positive moral value which they can engage in and learn from.
  • Building self-control
    Creating a daily routine helps promote self-control as well as develop expectations for both the child and the parent. In addition, through incorporating learning opportunities into everyday routines, children enthusiastically apply emerging skills and develop comprehension.
  • Developing a healthy attitude towards learning
    Utilizing exercises or fun tasks helps children engage in learning with a willful and voluntary attitude. For instance, a "treasure hunt" activity delivers curiosity, discovery and reward. You can simply build flashcards that contain pictures of clues to find the treasure with each clue pointing to the next until they discover the treasure. In this way, a child engages a sense of purpose and fulfillment while learning shapes, colors, words, and images in their pursuit.
  • Interacting with others
    As a teacher within a traditional classroom, this task may come easily by creating small interactive groups. In contrast, homeschoolers may try these alternatives:
    • Schedule "play time" with other parents and their children.
    • Get involved in community resources and opportunities such as sports clubs, scouting, dance and theater.
    • Get connected with homeschooling support groups. Homeschool.com has a complete list of local homeschooling support groups.
    • Sign up for a summer camp.
    • Volunteering is a great way to socialize.
  • Conflict resolution
    Teach your child to use words to express themselves. Using words promotes healthy communication and helps in conflict resolution and problem solving. Children learn by example, hence, when you are faced with challenges, they will observe and learn by how you manage your emotions and solve their personal conflict.

Language and Literacy

What Is It?

  • Development of native language.
  • Learning to speak, read, write.
  • Build their vocabulary.

What Children Should Learn During This Year

  • Identify distinct sounds in their native language.
  • Communicate with words and pictures.
  • Learn the alphabet letter names and sounds.
  • Understand and use a variety of words and phrases.
  • Acknowledge environmental print.
  • Be able to trace lines and letters.
  • Spell and write their first name.

Lessons and Activities

Language and literacy skills are developed through everyday interactions and require explicit instructions.

Mathematical Thinking

What Is It?

The ability to calculate, gauge and measure thoughts while utilizing mental analysis to solve problems and apply it to everyday living.

What Children Should Learn During This Year

  • Recognize simple patterns and relationships.
  • Learn numbers and number concepts (up to 20).
  • Ability to count objects and match numbers to the count.
  • Identify four basic shapes: circle, square, triangle and rectangle.
  • Understand positional/directional concepts such as up/down, over/under, top/bottom, inside/outside, in/out, behind/in front of, above/below, high/low, right/left, far/near, off/on, first/last.
  • Understand and use comparative words such as big/little, large/small, slow/fast, short/long, few/many, less/more, tall/short, empty/full.

Lessons and Activities

Promote mathematical thinking and basic math concepts through simple hands-on activities. Visit My Teaching Station Math Worksheet to download resources for your activities.

Physical Development

What Is It?

There are two types of physical development, Gross-Motor Skills, and Fine-Motor Skills. Gross-motor skills are the abilities of the body to move large muscle groups. Fine-motor skills are the abilities of the body to move small muscles of the hands.

What Children Should Learn During This Year

  • Recognize and touch fingers.
  • Stack large size blocks.
  • Complete puzzles with five or more pieces.
  • Hold a pencil correctly.
  • Hold scissors correctly.
  • Ability to trace lines, shapes, and letters.
  • Ability to cut out shapes from traced lines with scissors.
  • Write their first name with a pen or pencil.
  • Finger painting.
  • Ability to control a paint brush.

Lessons and Activities

Preschoolers motor skill development encompasses a wide range of activities including:

  • Provide outdoor opportunities for your child to explore using their hands (playing in a sand box or at a park, finding objects along nature trails, picking out shells at the beach).
  • Supply materials such as paper and cardboard to fold, crumple and play with.
  • Create a building zone play area with toys such as blocks, legos, shapes, and puzzles.
  • Schedule time for one-on-one art projects incorporating hand coordination skills (using crayons, scissors, pencil).
  • Download My Teaching Station Worksheets.

For more activities, see Popular Preschooler and Kindergarten Gross Motor Skills Activities and Easy Activities to Develop Fine Motor Skills During Your Child Early Years.

Creative Arts

What Is It?

  • Artistic and creative development.
  • Create and appreciate art.

What Children Should Learn During This Year

  • Sing songs and identify melodies.
  • Playing simple instruments.
  • Awareness of the body's potential to move and create sound (dancing).
  • Express creativity in movement.
  • Pretend play: Act out stories they know or to create play scenarios from their life experiences.
  • Appreciating the arts.

Lessons and Activities

  • Basic Colors
    Teach the ten basic colors: white, black, red, green, blue, yellow, orange, brown, purple and pink.
  • Art Projects
    Lead the children in creating artwork and building projects with paint, coloring paper, glue and any other suitable material. For an excellent example, see Help Your Preschooler Practice Counting While Having Fun With This Number Activity.
  • Music
    Playing music and dancing promotes many health benefits. Encourage your child to move and dance to the beat of a sound.
  • Creative Drama
    Inspire your child to play and interact with their toys by acting out meaningful stories.

For more activities, see Encourage Your Child's Creativity with These 10 Most Popular Art Projects.


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